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ﺍﻟﻤﺠﺎﻣﻠﺔ ﻭﺍﻟﻨﻔﺎﻕ
ﺑﻨﻈﺮﻱ ﺍﻟﻤﺠﺎﻣﻠﺔ ﺳﻠﻮﻙ ﻳﺘّﺒﻌﻪ
ﺍﻹﻧﺴﺎﻥ ﻟﻐﺎﻳﺔ ﺃﺟﺘﻤﺎﻋﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﻘﺼﺪ
ﻣﻨﻬﺎ ﺍﻟﺘﻮﺩﺩ ﻭﺍﻟﺘﻘﺮﺏ ﻭﺃﻇﻬﺎﺭ ﺍﻷﻟﻔﺔ
ﺃﺣﻴﺎﻧﺎً . ﻭﻗﺪ ﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﺍﻟﻐﺎﻳﺔ ﻣﻨﻪ
ﺃﺣﻴﺎﻧﺎً ﺃﺧﺮﻯ ﻫﻮ ﺑﻌﺚ ﺍﻟﻌﺰﺍﺀ ﻓﻲ
ﻧﻔﺲ ﺍﻵ ’ ﺧﺮ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﻳﺸﻌﺮ ﺑﺎﻟﻨﻘﺺ
ﺃﻭ ﺍﻟﺤﺮﺝ ﻣﻦ ﺷﻲﺀ ﻣﺎ . ﺑﻴﻨﻤﺎ
ﺍﻟﻨﻔﺎﻕ ﻫﻮ ﺳﻠﻮﻙ ﺍﻟﻐﺎﻳﺔ ﻣﻨﻪ
ﺃﻧﺘﻬﺎﺯﻳﺔ ﺃﻱ ﺃﻇﻬﺎﺭ ﻋﻜﺲ ﻣﺎﻧﺒﻄﻦ
ﺃﻭ ﻧﻀﻤﺮ ﻟﻶﺧﺮ ﺑﻘﺼﺪ ﺗﺤﻘﻴﻖ
ﻣﻜﺎﺳﺐ ﻣﻌﻴﻨﺔ ﻭﻫﻮ ﺳﻠﻮﻙ ﺩﻧﻲﺀ
ﻷﻧﻪ ﻳﺘﻄﻠّﺐ ﻣﻦ ﺻﺎﺣﺒﻪ ﺃﻥ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ
ﻗﺎﺩﺭﺍً ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻜﺬﺏ ﻭﺍﻟﺮﻳﺎﺀ ﻟﻐﺎﻳﺎﺕ
ﻣﻌﻴﻨﺔ
ﻗﺼﺪﺕ ﻣﻦ ﻣﻘﺪﻣﺘﻲ ﻫﺬﻩ ﺃﻥ ﺃﺑﻴﻦ
ﺍﻟﻔﺮﻕ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﻟﻤﺠﺎﻣﻠﺔ ﺑﻨﻈﺮﻱ
ﻭﺍﻟﻨﻔﺎﻕ . ﻟﺬﻟﻚ ﺃﻗﻮﻝ ﺑﺄﻥ ﺍﻟﻤﺠﺎﻣﻞ
ﻟﻴﺲ ﺑﻤﻨﺎﻓﻖ ﻭﺍﻟﻌﻜﺲ ﺻﺤﻴﺢ .
ﻭﺻﺤﻴﺢ ﺃﻧﻨﻲ ﻻﺃﻓﻀﻞ ﺍﻷﺷﺨﺎﺹ
ﺍﻟﻤﺠﺎﻣﻠﻴﻦ ﺑﺸﺪﺓ ﻭﻟﻜﻨﻨﻲ ﺃﺣﺘﺮﻡ
ﺃﺳﻠﻮﺑﻬﻢ ﻣﺎﺩﺍﻣﺖ ﺍﻟﻐﺎﻳﺔ ﻣﻦ ﺫﻟﻚ
ﻧﺒﻴﻠﺔ ,
ﻭﻃﺒﻌﺎّ ﺃﺗﺤﻤﻠﻬﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻣﻀﺾ ﻭﻻ
ﺃﻋﺘﺒﺮﻫﻢ ﻣﻨﺎﻓﻘﻴﻦ ﻃﺎﻟﻤﺎ ﻟﻢ ﺃﺟﺪ
ﻓﻲ ﻣﺠﺎﻣﻠﺘﻬﻢ ﻭﺳﻴﻠﺔ ﻟﺒﻠﻮﻍ ﻏﺎﻳﺔ
ﺷﺨﺼﻴﺔ ﻣﻌﻴﻨﺔ ,
ﻭﻟﻮ ﺧﻴّﺮﺕ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﻟﺴﻠﻮﻛﻴﻦ )
ﺍﻟﻤﺠﺎﻣﻠﺔ ﻭﺍﻟﻨﻔﺎﻕ ( ﻟﻤﺎ ﺃﺧﺘﺮﺕ ﺃﻳﺎً
ﻣﻨﻬﻤﺎ ﺃﻻ ﻓﻲ ﺣﺎﻻﺕ ﺃﺳﺘﺜﻨﺎﺋﻴﺔ ,
ﻓﻘﺪ ﻧﺤﺘﺎﺝ ﺍﻟﻤﺠﺎﻣﻠﺔ ﺃﺣﻴﺎﻧﺎً ﻭﻓﻲ
ﺣﺎﻻﺕ ﺧﺎﺻﺔ ﻹﻋﻄﺎﺀ ﺃﺭﻳﺤﻴﺔ
ﻟﻸﺧﺮﻳﻦ ﻓﻲ ﺗﻌﺎﻣﻠﻬﻢ ﻣﻌﻨﺎ