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hawk63 guestbook (22800) Sign guestbook
KeD
"We used pencil,when we were young
But
Now we use pens.
Do u know why?
B'coz
Mistakes in childhood can be erased
But not now."
Strange but true...
Morning
But
Now we use pens.
Do u know why?
B'coz
Mistakes in childhood can be erased
But not now."
Strange but true...
Morning 
Hold 10 Roses in ur hand
Hold 10 Roses in ur hand & stand opposite of the mirror,
U'll see 11 Roses & among them,
the most Beautiful rose in the World is U my dear friend...
alone
ﻋﺸﺮ ﻧﺼﺎﺋﺢ ﻟﺘﺼﺒﺢ ﻣﻦ
ﺍﻟﺸﺨﺼﻴﺎﺕ ﺍﻟﻘﻮﻳﺔ :
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ﺃﻗﺼﺪ ﺑﻘﻮﻟﻰ ” ﺷﺨﺼﻴﺔ
ﻗﻮﻳﺔ : ”
ﺃﻥ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﻟﻚ ﺭﺃﻱ ﻭ ﺗﺄﺛﻴﺮ .. ﻭ
ﺇﻟﻴﻚ ﺧﻄﻮﺍﺕ ﺗﺴﺎﻋﺪﻙ ﻓﻰ
ﺫﻟﻚ ﺇﻥ ﺷﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ :
-1 ﺇﺫﺍ ﻛﻨﺖ ﺟﺎﻟﺴﺎ ﺑﻴﻦ
ﻣﺠﻤﻮﻋﺔ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻷﺻﺪﻗﺎﺀ ﺃﻭ
ﺍﻷﻗﺎﺭﺏ ) ﻻ ﺗﻜﻦ ﺗﺒﻌﻴﺎ (
ﻭﺍﻟﺘﺒﻌﻴﺔ ﺗﻌﻨﻲ :
ﺃﻥ ﺗﺨﻀﻊ ﻟﺠﻤﻴﻊ ﺍﻷﻣﻮﺭ
ﻭﺍﻟﻘﺮﺍﺭﺍﺕ ﺍﻟﺘﻲ ﻳﺘﺨﺬﻭﻧﻬﺎ
ﺑﻐﺾ ﺍﻟﻨﻈﺮ ﺇﺫﺍ ﻛﺎﻧﺖ ﺗﻌﺠﺒﻚ
ﺃﻡ ﻻ
ﻓﻴﺠﺐ ﺃﻥ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﻟﻚ ﻗﺮﺍﺭ ، ﻭ
ﺃﻥ ﺗﺘﻤﺴﻚ ﺑﺮﺃﻳﻚ .. ﻃﺒﻌﺎ ﺇﺫﺍ
ﻛﺎﻥ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺻﻮﺍﺏ
.2 ﻳﺠﺐ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﺟﺎﺩﺍ ﻋﻨﺪ
ﺍﻷﻣﻮﺭ ﺍﻟﺠﺪﻳﺔ ،
ﻭ ﻣﺮﺣﺎ ﻋﻨﺪ ﺍﻷﻣﻮﺭ ﺍﻟﻤﺮﺣﺔ ..
) ﺃﻱ ﺗﻌﻄﻲ ﻟﻜﻞ ﻣﻮﻗﻒ
ﺣﻘﻪ . (
.3 ﺗﺮﺍﺟﻊ ﻋﻦ ﻛﻼﻣﻚ ﺇﺫﺍ
ﻭﺟﺪﺕ ﻣﺎ ﻫﻮ ﻣﻘﻨﻊ ﺃﻛﺜﺮ
ﻓﻬﺬﺍ ﻳﺪﻝ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻗﻮﺓ
ﺍﻟﺸﺨﺼﻴﺔ ﻭﻟﻴﺲ ﻋﻠﻰ
ﺿﻌﻔﻬﺎ .
.4 ﻣﻦ ﻗﻮﺓ ﺍﻟﺸﺨﺼﻴﺔ ﺃﻥ
ﺗﻄﻮِّﺭ ﻧﻔﺴﻚ ﺩﺍﺋﻤﺎ ﻭﺗﻨﻤّﻲ
ﺷﺨﺼﻴﺘﻚ ﻳﻮﻣﻴﺎ .
.5 ﺇﺫﺍ ﻭﺟّﻪ ﻟﻚ ﺃﻱ ﺍﻧﺘﻘﺎﺩ ﻟﻚ ..
ﺍﺳﺘﻘﺒﻠﻪ ﺑﺼﺪﺭ ﺭﺣﺐ ﻭﺑﻜﻞ
ﻫﺪﻭﺀ ،
ﻭ ﻻ ﺗﺠﻌﻞ ﺃﻱ ﺍﻧﺘﻘﺎﺩ ﺃﻭ ﻛﻼﻡ
ﻳﻬﺰّﻙ ﺃﻭ ﻳﻔﻘﺪﻙ ﺍﻟﺜﻘﺔ
ﺑﻨﻔﺴﻚ .
)) ﻛﻦ ﻭﺍﺛﻘﺎ ﻣﻦ ﻧﻔﺴﻚ . ((
.6 ﺣﺎﻭﻝ ﺃﻻّ ﺗُﻈﻬﺮ ﻧﻘﺎﻁ
ﺿﻌﻔﻚ ﺃﻣﺎﻡ ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺱ .. ﻣﺜﻞ
)) ﺍﻟﺪﻣﻮﻉ ﺃﻭ ﺍﻟﺼﺪﻣﺔ ﺃﻭ
ﺍﻟﺨﻮﻑ . ((
.7 ﻻ ﺗﺴﻜﺖ ﻋﻦ ﺣﻘﻚ ﻣﻬﻤﺎ
ﻛﺎﻧﺖ ﺍﻟﻈﺮﻭﻑ ..
8 ـ ﺑﺎﺩﺭ ﺑﺎﻟﺴﻼﻡ ﻭﺍﻟﺘﺤﻴﺔ ﺇﺫﺍ
ﺃﺧﻄﺄ ﺃﺣﺪﻫﻢ ﻓﻲ ﺣﻘﻚ ..
ﻓﺨﻴﺮﻛﻢ ﻣﻦ ﻳﺒﺪﺃ ﺑﺎﻟﺴﻼﻡ
ﻛﻤﺎ ﻋﻠﻤﻨﺎ ﺭﺳﻮﻟﻨﺎ ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ
ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ♥
9 ـ ﺣﺎﻭﻝ ﺇﺛﺒﺎﺕ ﻭﺟﻮﺩﻙ ﻓﻲ
ﺃﻱ ﻣﺠﻠﺲ ﻛﻨﺖ .. ﻭ ﺫﻟﻚ ﺑﺄﻥ
ﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﻓﻌﺎﻻ ﻓﻴﻪ .
10 ـ ﺗﺬﻛّﺮ ﺩﺍﺋﻤﺎ ﺃﻥ :
- ﺍﻟﺨﺠﻞ ﺍﻟﺰﺍﺋﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺿﻌﻒ
ﺍﻟﺸﺨﺼﻴﺔ ،
- ﻭ ﺍﻟﻤﺴﺎﻳﺮﺓ ﺍﻟﺪﺍﺋﻤﺔ ﻣﻦ
ﺿﻌﻒ ﺍﻟﺸﺨﺼﻴﺔ
- ﺍﻟﺴﻜﻮﺕ ﻋﻨﺪ ﺍﻟﻤﻮﺍﺟﻬﺔ ﻣﻦ
ﺿﻌﻒ ﺍﻟﺸﺨﺼﻴﺔ .
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